The best way, I think, is to be very realistic when you start a subscription to either an online dating service or a matchmaking service. Never pay more than you can afford, for example. And realize that some people wait a year or more to find someone special on these sites.

Online dating services do work well for a great many people. But there are so many variables involved. Go into all dating services with an open mind, and watch out for scams by checking all companies at the Better Business Bureau site before making a decision.

Another thing to keep in mind while dating online is that one service may work better for you than another. That’s why there’s so many options out there.

Looking for love? It doesn’t hurt to try out one of the many dating sites that are out there.