Dating Advice: Don’t Listen to Men
I’d like to share a few recent conversations I witnessed between a man and a woman. They are both friends, nothing more. The man was giving the woman dating advice.
The woman had just started seeing some guy. She asked her male friend how long she should wait until she slept with him.
The male replied: “Well, if you’re thinking of holding out on him, the only one you’re holding out on is yourself.”
So he basically meant: Sleep with him whenever you want. It doesn’t matter.
Fast forward a week or two. The man and the woman were having lunch again, and I was at the table. The man was moaning about a girl he was in love with, who had gotten involved with another man.
He said, “I guess he sent her flowers after the first time they did it.”
We asked him how long that was.
He replied, “About a month. Which is kind of sweet. At least she didn’t give it up to him right away.”
You see this? You see how this “friend” didn’t think twice before advising his female friend to sleep with her man quickly? You see how that same man had a totally different standard for a girl he actually liked romantically?
Dating advice for tonight: Do NOT listen to your guy friends. They do not see you as a “girl” and will not give you good advice.
